Charity Lawson recently had the opportunity to reconnect with some of her most notable former suitors during the “Men Tell All” episode of The Bachelorette season 20. The episode featured Lawson sitting down with Brayden Bowers and Xavier Bonner, both of whom played significant roles in her journey to find love. In an interview with The Hollywood Reporter, Lawson opened up about her experiences and shared her thoughts on the upcoming finale.
Lawson reflected on her time with Bowers, who received her first-impression rose during the season premiere. She described Bowers as charismatic and full of energy, which initially attracted her to him. However, upon watching the show back, Lawson realized that there were manipulative aspects to their relationship. She had an opportunity to address this with Bowers during the “Men Tell All” episode, but she felt that there wasn’t necessarily any closure needed between them. Despite this, Lawson believes that Bowers’ personality would be better suited for Bachelor in Paradise, as she doesn’t think he is ready for a long-term, committed relationship.
Moving on to her conversation with Bonner, Lawson shared that she was able to reconnect with him during the “Men Tell All” episode. Bonner admitted that he had been replaying their breakup in his head and was working on bettering himself. Lawson expressed her hope that Bonner would use this experience to grow and learn from his mistakes. She wished him well in his personal journey.
Lawson also reflected on the potential connection she could have had with Bonner’s close friend, Aaron Bryant. She admitted that it was tough knowing that she could have spent more time with Bryant during Bonner’s time on the show. She wondered if keeping Bryant around longer would have changed the outcome of their relationship.
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One of the most impactful discussions Lawson had during the season was with Joey Graziadei about the challenges of being an interracial couple. Lawson saw it as an opportunity to have an important conversation that is not often showcased on the show. She believed it was crucial to address these topics and make them a part of the conversation when searching for a life partner.
Another significant moment for Lawson was when Joey’s uncle questioned his authenticity. Lawson admitted that it was difficult to process and understand in the moment, but she took the time to follow up with Joey and discuss the issue. She needed time to understand what his uncle’s definition of authenticity meant and how it affected their relationship.
Lawson then discussed her connections with Graziadei and Dotun Olubeko, both of whom she felt had unique qualities that attracted her. She described Graziadei as sincere, patient, and loving, while Olubeko had undeniable chemistry with her. Lawson appreciated the intentionality and commitment both men showed throughout their time together. Ultimately, Lawson followed her intuition and made decisions based on what felt right for her.
When asked about fans’ reactions to the upcoming finale, Lawson promised that it would be a beautiful and emotional ride. She believed that audiences would connect with each of the love stories presented and advised viewers to “buckle up” for the captivating finale.
As Lawson’s journey on The Bachelorette comes to an end, fans eagerly await the emotional and beautiful finale, knowing that it will leave no dry eyes.
