The “Riverdale” series finale has left viewers puzzled and sparked controversy within the polyamorous community. In the episode, the show’s main characters – Archie, Betty, Jughead, and Veronica – found themselves in a four-way relationship, which has not been well-received by everyone.
If you missed the episode, it was a strange one, but that has become typical for the show. The “shocking twist” included a sequence where the characters formed a quad-relationship. Reactions to this storyline have been mixed, with many fans feeling that the show creators used the relationship for a mere “wow factor.”
We spoke to Brett Chamberlin, the Executive Director of OPEN (Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Non-monogamy), to get some insights into the polyamorous community’s perspective. Chamberlin emphasized that while it’s tempting to celebrate every portrayal of non-monogamy in popular media, it should be done responsibly and with a genuine understanding of the lifestyle.
“It’s frustrating that Riverdale used its characters’ non-monogamous relationship as a ‘shocking twist’ rather than engaging with an authentic portrayal of non-monogamy as simply being part of people’s identities,” Chamberlin commented. He added that it would have been more meaningful if the show explored the characters’ motivations, relationship agreements, communication practices, and the underlying work that makes all types of relationships function.
The controversy surrounding the “Riverdale” finale raises important questions about representation in popular media. While it’s essential to portray diverse relationship dynamics, it’s equally crucial to handle them with sensitivity and respect for the communities they represent. In this case, it seems that the show’s portrayal of a quad-relationship missed the mark and failed to provide a nuanced exploration of non-monogamy.
This is not the first time a TV show has faced backlash for mishandling polyamorous storylines. In recent years, there has been a growing demand for accurate representation of non-monogamous relationships in mainstream media. While some shows have made progress in this area, others still struggle to capture the complexities and realities of non-monogamy.
The polyamorous community seeks authentic and meaningful portrayals that go beyond using non-monogamy as a mere plot twist or source of shock value. They want to see their relationships explored with the same depth, nuance, and respect as monogamous relationships. This includes showcasing the emotional and practical aspects of polyamory, the challenges faced, and the communication skills necessary to make these relationships work.
In recent years, there have been efforts to address this issue. Shows like “You Me Her” and “Wanderlust” have made strides in portraying non-monogamous relationships in a realistic and respectful manner. However, there is still a long way to go before accurate representation becomes the norm rather than the exception.
The impact of media representation should not be underestimated. Television shows and movies shape societal perceptions and influence public attitudes. When non-monogamy is depicted inaccurately or sensationalized, it perpetuates misconceptions and reinforces stereotypes. On the other hand, when media portrays non-monogamy authentically and respectfully, it can help to educate the public and destigmatize these relationship dynamics.
It’s important to recognize that the backlash against the “Riverdale” finale comes from a community that often feels marginalized and misunderstood. Polyamorous individuals face societal biases and judgment, and they yearn for representation that accurately reflects their experiences. When media fails to meet these expectations, it can be seen as a missed opportunity for progress and further perpetuates the invisibility of non-monogamous individuals.
While “Riverdale” may have ended, the controversy surrounding the show’s portrayal of polyamory continues to generate discussion and debate. It serves as a reminder of the need for responsible and authentic representation of diverse relationships in popular media. Only when media creators take the time to understand and authentically portray these relationships can progress be made towards more inclusive storytelling.