Adam Sandler has proven himself to be a devoted family man, often finding ways to spend quality time with his wife and children. One of his unique approaches is making movies with his family, and his latest project for Netflix, “You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah,” takes this concept to another level. The film, directed by Sammi Cohen and based on Fiona Rosenbloom’s popular 2005 YA novel, features Sandler’s daughter Sunny Sandler in the lead role, along with her older sister Sadie Sandler, her mother Jackie Sandler, and her father Adam in supporting roles. The result is a heartwarming and entertaining family project.
The central character in the film is Stacy, played by Sunny Sandler, who is preparing for her bat mitzvah, an important Jewish coming-of-age ceremony. Stacy and her best friend Lydia, played by Samantha Lorraine, navigate the challenges of teenage life as they approach their special day. Stacy is particularly focused on her crush, Josh, played by Dylan Hoffman, but faces humiliation when her attempt to impress him goes awry. As their friendship teeters on the edge, Stacy delivers the film’s titular edict, causing tension between them.
As expected, the film explores the complications and awkwardness of adolescence, but it does so with humor and a genuine sweetness. Stacy’s parents, played by Idina Menzel and Adam Sandler, are portrayed lovingly, observing their daughter’s struggles with sympathy and support. Sunny Sandler shines in her lead performance, capturing the nuances of teenage girl angst in a funny and relatable way. Sadie Sandler also delivers a comedic performance as Stacy’s acerbic older sister Ronnie, while Samantha Lorraine provides solid support as Stacy’s best friend Lydia. The film also features memorable appearances from Sarah Sherman as a hipster rabbi and Jackie Hoffman as a supporting player.
One of the standout aspects of the film is its unapologetic embrace of Jewish culture. It doesn’t shy away from using Jewish references and customs, assuming the audience will understand them. This approach adds depth and authenticity to the story, making it a meaningful experience for Jewish viewers while offering an educational glimpse into Jewish traditions for others.
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As a Sandler comedy, the film does have its fair share of dumb and cringeworthy jokes. However, it is balanced by the film’s well-observed depiction of teenage girlhood and its core message of friendship and acceptance. The heartwarming ending provides a satisfying conclusion that will resonate with anyone who has experienced the bond of a best friend.
In terms of the film’s production, “You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah” is a collaborative effort between Alloy Entertainment, Happy Madison Productions, and Netflix. Sammi Cohen directed the film, with Alison Peck serving as the screenwriter. The film boasts an impressive cast, including Idina Menzel, Jackie Sandler, Adam Sandler, Sadie Sandler, Sunny Sandler, Samantha Lorraine, Dylan Hoffman, Sarah Sherman, Dan Bulla, Ido Mosseri, Jackie Hoffman, Zaara Kuttermeroor, and Luis Guzman. The cinematography is by Ben Hardwicke, and the production design is by Aleksandra Marinkovich. The editing is handled by Jamie Keeney and Brian Robinson, with costume design by Jordy Scheinberg and music by Este Haim and Amanda Yamate. Melissa DeLizia is the casting director.
Overall, “You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah” is a delightful and heartwarming family film that showcases the talents of the Sandler family while capturing the essence of teenage girlhood. It may have its share of silly jokes, but its relatable story and strong performances make it a worthwhile watch for audiences of all backgrounds. The film’s unapologetic celebration of Jewish culture adds an extra layer of depth and authenticity, making it a standout entry in Adam Sandler’s filmography. Whether you’re Jewish or not, this film is sure to entertain and leave you with a warm and fuzzy feeling.
